Focus on the Message.
If you focus on what the messenger is wearing, how they talk, their shoes, their disability, familiarity, etc… you might miss the message.
“...We’ve known him since he was a kid; he’s the carpenter’s son. We know his mother, Mary. We know his brothers James and Joseph, Simon and Judas. All his sisters live here. Who does he think he is?” (Matthew 13:55-56).
"Jesus did not do many miracles there, because the people did not believe in him" (Matthew 13:58).